Monday, April 09, 2007

My Space

I have a My Space page; have had for some time now. Here's a link if you're curious - http://www.myspace.com/ljodamron - I did it at the request of a dear friend who needed a visible form of loving support during an ugly custody battle within her family. She even set most of it up for me. My daughters couldn't believe it when I told them I had a My Space page - my youngest thought that was just a little too cool for her square peg of a mother. I don't blog there as I had already established a blog here. Not that my blog is incredibly thought-provoking, world-changing, or setting any land speed records, but I do have a handful of regular visitors and would prefer to not bother with changing blog addys. I suppose if I didn't have anything going on in my life I could keep two blogs, but because I'm typically up to my eyeballs with life itself, that's not going to happen.
The thing that I don't understand is why anyone would want to be my friend. I'm so incredibly vanilla, as ordinary as ordinary can get. I suppose that authors want to get the word out about contests, websites, etc. in order to cast light on their books, so they are eager to "friend" everybody. Now that I can understand and appreciate - I am always happy to hear about new books and new (to me) authors.
The requests that always leave me grinning, if not actually laughing out loud, are the ones for nudist groups, porn sites, long-legged women, and the most recent one I received, from a guy whose interest seems to be in the advancement of bare breasted women. These people obviously haven't seen me or they would be ripping those invitations right back out of my cyber hands. They simply can't know the havoc that gravity, childbearing, surgeries and fun living have wreaked upon this body! I am coming up on 6o friends, which is just crazy. I turn away those who are simply too bizarre, and have even deleted one person after a virtual onslaught of jokes and rambling stories.
Do you think that some people see My Space as a sort of popularity contest? Whoever has the most "friends" wins?
I hope everyone has a great week - I'm going to buzz over real quick and see if I have any new friend requests . . .

Laurie :)

4 comments:

Stacy~ said...

Hey, how come I'm not getting any of those sites trying to "friend" me? LOL.

Just for the record, you are one cool chick :)

Judy F said...

Sniff I don't have that many friends either. I know I am not lovable.

You just rock girlie

Anonymous said...

Hi Laurie, I think you're pretty kewl and since I'm your friend, that makes me pretty kewl too.

I know what you mean about the weirdo's. I wonder if they just sit at the computer all day linking to each person, then sending friend requests.

Laurie D. said...

You guys are the best - great friends each and every one of you - and if it weren't for you, no one would ever leave a reply! lol